Does your business ever feel a bit off? Like you're struggling to go to the next level, but there seems to be a key piece of the puzzle that is missing? For many of us that missing piece is accessing the divine feminine. Today's episode of She Grows is here to change this. You'll learn how to heal your divine masculine, flip the polarity around, and activate your divine feminine. I'm so excited to introduce you to Racquel Vasallo, a Master Catalyst for profound spiritual fulfillment. In our conversation, we explore what it means to catapult your queendom and how to make the energetic shifts to let go of who you are not. Raquel shares her process for shifting you from your zone of excellence to your zone of genius, so you can begin doing your iconic work in the world. She explains why soul-guided entrepreneurs have a taboo blind spot of spiritual blocks and what to do when you resist learning how to sell yourself. Finally, we explore the different ways that we can turn up our ability to receive divine downloads or to receive that wisdom coming from the higher self, the divine other guides that are here to support us. GUEST BIO: Raquel Vasallo is the #1 Best Selling Author of “Spiritual Seductress, The High-Powered Women’s Guide to Devour the World through Spiritual Guidance.” She is the pre-eminent Spiritual Advisor to female Visionaries and Leaders. She is an International Speaker, Mystic Artist and Feminine Leadership Trendsetter. Raquel has a rare gift to rapidly unblock subconscious and energetic patterns. She is a Master Catalyst for profound spiritual fulfillment, unapologetic self-expression, and reaching one’s iconic work in the world.
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Allyson Scammell: Welcome. Raquel, thank you so much for being on the show.
[00:00:05]Raquel Vasallo: Oh, thank you so much for having me.
[00:00:08]Allyson Scammell: Oh my gosh. I, we have some really exciting questions. I have some exciting questions to ask you. You do some really amazing work and I just want to dig right in to, first of all, I want to explore a little bit. Because we have a working title of this podcast and it might be shifting, but our working title of this podcast is about how we can catapult our queendoms.
[00:00:34] And I just think that's a great expression. And can you share with the audience a little bit, what that means to catapult queendom.
[00:00:41]Raquel Vasallo: Yes. No, we're at a very interesting time right now where there's a karmic acceleration and we are all being called to be all that we came here to be and live our highest purpose. And so it requires actually a lot of. Deep digging and work to first, let go of who you're not, and then uncover who you really are.
[00:01:06] And when you do that's when you can actually step into your power and catapult your queendom, living your purpose, making your contribution, leaving your legacy and living the most amazing life that you can live.
[00:01:20]Allyson Scammell: Nice. Beautiful. So what are some ways that you help people in your life and with your clients, help them let go of who you're not. how do we approach that? That's really powerful.
[00:01:33]Raquel Vasallo: Yeah, there's two parts of it. There's actually the more tangible pieces where, clients can start to identify right now. I'll ask them the question. For example, what are you tolerating in your life? You'll start to get answers and anybody that's listening to this right now, things might come up for them as well.
[00:01:53]So there, you can start to see why I'm tolerating this in my relationship that doesn't really work for me or this aspect in my business. And that's just not a match to what I know is available to me and not what I know I'm meant to experience. So we can first start to do some housecleaning in that area, starting to see all the pieces that are there.
[00:02:15] And once you start to make those shifts there, then there's the energetic pieces that we also need to clean up because sometimes no matter how much mindset work or how much coaching we do in this area, there's actually a lot of energetic pieces that also need to be taken care of.
[00:02:33]Allyson Scammell: Yeah. And so how do we do that? How do we make those energy shifts?
[00:02:38]Raquel Vasallo: Yeah, a good place to look is if something keeps on coming up for you. Say like you multiple times throughout your life, you've felt really close to, or actually felt like you've completely stepped into your power and what your purpose is. And then all of a sudden something might come into your life to stop you.
[00:03:00]Or this could happen to us. The same example could happen with relationships. It can happen with money. Then, that there's some undercurrent going on there on an energetic level that actually is stopping you from stepping into that. And so you can start asking the question yourself, or you can work with an intuitive guide that can laser right into, Oh, you have these programs here that are limiting you and they're going to keep on.
[00:03:28] Showing up every single time you are so close to stepping into your power or maybe something is going on, in your family to you on an ancestral level, that's stopping you from, I'm going to continue with the example of stepping into your power. it could be something around. Healing the mother wound or healing, the sister wound something and the divine feminine, or it could be something in how you perceive the masculine.
[00:03:57] So all those pieces are energetic and they need to be cleared on the energetic level for us to fully accomplish and experience everything that we want to.
[00:04:10]Allyson Scammell: Yes. Beautiful. Beautiful. And so you've talked about helping people do their iconic work in the world? What do you mean by iconic work?
[00:04:20]Raquel Vasallo: Yes, it's actually beyond purpose. So I'll just share a little bit of my story, cause I used to be an architect and I'm living in New York and I got run over by a car back in 2008. I had a near-death experience. And even though it was very traumatic and very difficult, the blessing that came from that is that all of my channels opened up and I became clairvoyant, became clear audient and my life as an architect, even though I was really successful, did not make any sense to me anymore.
[00:04:54]So I went on this path of searching for my purpose, and not only understanding what my purpose was, but helping other women, not only discover their purpose, but step into it, that's my biggest mission here. And then over the years, as I kept on doing this work, and I kept on saying yes, and it kept on evolving.
[00:05:16]I realized, wow, it's not just purpose because we're not really shown the bigness and the fullness of it because we would fall off flat on our faces because it's so scary. And that's why lately it came up, this iconic work where it's a super purpose where you're being all that you came here to be, because in your purpose, you can still play small.
[00:05:38] But when you're doing your iconic work, it requires for you to be all of you to step into all your power and to shed any of the belief systems, programs, energetic patterns that we've been talking about that have been stopping you from that.
[00:05:53]Allyson Scammell: That's so beautiful. I love the idea of it's beyond purpose. I love the idea of a super purpose. And Raquel, I have to share with you right now. when I, when we were communicating about you being on the show and I was looking at your website, And reading some of the stuff that you're working on, I felt so can I say, I felt connected to you on a soul level and ways that I don't necessarily connect to other guests on the show.
[00:06:20] I have probably a guest a week. I do. I felt such an energetic connection to you and your work. And very interestingly, I too had a near death experience in 2008.
[00:06:33] Raquel Vasallo: Oh, my goodness.
[00:06:35] Allyson Scammell: That left me with Clairevoyant. And Claire audient gifts. And I know that you're originally from Madrid and my near NDE started in Madrid.
[00:06:45] Raquel Vasallo: Oh, wow. I've got goosebumps all over.
[00:06:48]Allyson Scammell: When you were talking, I was having goosebumps too. And I was like, Oh, this is my soul sister here.
[00:06:55] Raquel Vasallo: Wow. Wow. Wow. Wow. So I'm really curious as to what it is that we need to learn or do together.
[00:07:02] Allyson Scammell: and I'm just loving how you describe your work, how you talk about it, how you ask questions about it. It really, I think it's really beautiful. I want to keep going with this on this, beautiful journey that we're on right now and talking about this iconic work. I really, I love how. How you describe it, the words you're using, it really resonates with me.
[00:07:26]And so can you share with us how we can transition or leap from our zones of genius or sorry, our zones of excellent. Rather to doing the iconic work in the world.
[00:07:37]Raquel Vasallo: Yeah. I think that the fact that if anyone is thinking about that shift from excellence to genius or iconic or higher purpose, any of those words. Maybe even if you haven't heard them before, but you're listening right now. And you're like, Ooh, that sounds really interesting. That means that you're ready for it.
[00:07:58]That's step number one, you need to know that it's calling you otherwise you wouldn't even be interested in it. So if you know that it's calling you, the next step is to start asking questions. Okay. Spirit universe, show me what is this really about? How do you want me to serve next? Who do I need to become to serve on this level?
[00:08:19] Because that's a really big piece in order for us to do our iconic work. We also have to be an energetic match to that iconic work. Otherwise it will not be revealed to us.Again, anything in your life, that's not giving you joy, that you are tolerating. That's not lighting you up. Needs to let be, let go of, there needs to be a purification process.
[00:08:43] There needs to be a cleansing for the iconic work to even be revealed. And sometimes we'd like to get ahead of ourselves because we want to know, we want to know all the answers. And sometimes there's just this cleansing and this purging that needs to happen before the information can start pouring through.
[00:09:01]Allyson Scammell: Do you feel like your NDE was part of that cleanse? Me too. Yeah.
[00:09:08] Raquel Vasallo: Because from the outside it looked like I was crazy. Why would I quit my job being so successful? And then on the other hand, when I had this experience and I realized I was clairvoyant and clairaudient, and I trained with a spiritual teacher to understand and know how to use these gifts, going back to my architect life did not make any sense to me at all.
[00:09:33] So it was a complete shift of letting go of, and a big part of the letting go of us, wanting to control everything. Having to be, everything that I thought I should do and who I thought I was, because even though I, in my case, I chose architecture and I know a lot of people end up in a career that because their parents wanted that there's a lot of that going on.
[00:09:54]I chose architecture and still, there was this part of me of. Wanting to be the best, wanting to be number one, going to the Ivy league school, working for this star architects, pushing, and completely, really being disconnected from universe from source. So that was a true purging because that's what literally brought me down on my knees and said, okay, now I'm surrendering to guidance and it's completely the different way of navigating through the world.
[00:10:24] And I'm sure you can relate to that.
[00:10:27]Allyson Scammell: I relate so much. I relate so much to everything you're saying. That is really extraordinary. And, yeah, I love how you describe it. And so some of, one of the things that you teach about is how. Entrepreneurs have spiritual blocks and they're like a taboo blind spot for them. Why do you think that is that entrepreneurs have a taboo blind spot of spiritual blocks?
[00:10:53] Raquel Vasallo: because in my experience, working with clients and I've, I experienced this myself, when I do discard these spiritual gifts, I had the gifts. I had no idea how to run a business, So I had to learn and hire coaches to learn how to run a business and then do a lot of mindset work to understand the value of my work, how to charge, how to package it and all those things that you need to learn as a, as an entrepreneur.
[00:11:20]And then I would see that I would get to a point and then I would stop and I would contract and then I would expand again and I would contract and it's something that completely drove me crazy. And so that's when I realized, there's something, there must be something here that we're not talking about or that I, at least I couldn't find the teachings about it.
[00:11:42]And then it hit me. No, cause I kept on asking whenever I don't have an answer. I ask and that's when I realized that the energy shifts and the purging and the cleansing are the blind spot and are taboo because you don't go to get a master's degree to learn how to. Move that energy to clear that energy and to download new codes and new patterns.
[00:12:13]So I think this is a really key piece. And, I seeing the women I work with cause they've achieved a very high level of success and they still feel that there's something missing. And this is the missing piece because once you uncover this, once you go deep, then you get to be in spiritual fulfillment.
[00:12:33]And I believe there's nothing that gives you more joy than living your purpose and knowing who you are so that you can be 100% fully. Self-expressed not caring about what other people think. And that's another taboo piece that needs to be. Uncovered unpacked, deprogrammed. All of it.
[00:12:56]Allyson Scammell: Yeah. One thing that I noticed with my clients and I work with spiritual entrepreneurs specifically, they are so amazing in their gifts and in their offerings and what it is they do and what it is they offer, but they resist the sales part so much. And I think they think that they can just use spiritual tools and they don't have to think about.
[00:13:20]The business side. And when I try to coax them over to the business side, they think I'd being mean, or taking them away from their truth. what do you say to spiritual entrepreneurs who resist learning how to sell themselves?
[00:13:35]Raquel Vasallo: I say that if you're resisting that you are denying spirits And the reason why I say that is because I've been through this myself. And I actually had to hear that what I just shared from a coach at the time, because I, everything that you just described, I remember going through a very intense period of that.
[00:13:55] Not wanting to deal with it. And then I remember this coach said to me, you are denying spirit because if spirit gave you these gifts and you are so aware that you have these gifts and they make a huge difference for people. Then it's your responsibility to learn everything that you need to learn in this 3d reality, because at the end of the day, we still live in this 3d reality, To make a sale. And something else that I would add that I learned from another coach, which I remember really touched to me as well was sales is not something that you do to someone, but you do for someone because the moment that they say yes to working with you, their life. Has already changed because they said yes,
[00:14:39]Allyson Scammell: That's beautiful. I always call it. I call my, how I help people learn and understand sells and markets called the 3d plus five D process. And
[00:14:50] Raquel Vasallo: yes.
[00:14:51]Allyson Scammell: yeah, you're marrying the third dimensional with the fifth dimensional. And I just don't know how you do one without the other.
[00:14:58] Raquel Vasallo: Yeah. That's I love that term that you just said, because that's it, we are still here. We haven't ascended completely yet.
[00:15:06]Allyson Scammell: Correct. And I think a lot of our clients are they're stuck with something. they need our help. And when in that stuckness, they're down in that 3d world, we've all been there and that's where you go down to meet them. if you're going to help them alleviate a pain point, for example, and you're going to where they are and speaking words, they understand.
[00:15:26] So they know how to find you so they can say, yeah, I need that person in my life.
[00:15:32] Raquel Vasallo: Yes. So there's something else I would love to add on to that I discovered a few years ago. It was so clear to me and so clear, that when, clients that I work with. Same thing happens for them is that
[00:15:46]Allyson Scammell: Okay.
[00:15:46] Raquel Vasallo: whoever is attracted called or, to work with you on some level that soul was entrusted to you at this moment in time for you to guide them in a very specific piece that they need does that mean it will be forever, but for this very specific piece that they need to learn at this point in time.
[00:16:08]So in a way it's our responsibility to say yes to being that guide and to holding their hand and moving them through whatever obstacle they're going through to get them to the other side. And that's why I believe so much in coaching and I continue to get coached myself when I see myself stalling or some old programming coming up.
[00:16:31]I go and I seek help because I know I have my own blinders and we can't do this on our own. We're not meant to do this on our own.
[00:16:40]Allyson Scammell: A hundred percent. That is brilliant. Absolutely. Yes. Yes. Yes. So Raquel, I'd love to spend a minute on the divine feminine, and I know that this is a part of your teaching and helping us understand it. Can you tell us why it is important for women to access? If they want to go to the next level in their life or their business?
[00:17:01]Raquel Vasallo: Yes, we've been. And continue to live in a patriarchal society. So it doesn't matter where you are in your spiritual evolution. We're still living in that society and there's still inequality and there's still a lot of male dominance. And so the divine feminine is so important for women right now because.
[00:17:29] We've learned to push and to force and to get to success through the male paradigm. And although that can get you a lot of success, let's speak for example, financial success, or, being seen and known in your industry. What I've seen is that the women that get there, then something else falls apart in their life, whether it's their health.
[00:17:54]Their relationships or feeling like they're completely empty inside. And so that's why the shift needs to happen. And the divine feminine brings a whole different set of energies for us to integrate into our life, into use in our personal life and in our business. So let's say in business, for example, the divine feminine is all about flowing.
[00:18:21] It's about creativity. It's about receiving gentleness intuition, right? So there has to be this balance, the same way that you were mentioning Alison before about the 3d and the five D we have to also have the balance of the feminine and the masculine, which also actually solves a lot of these issues that we were talking about.
[00:18:41]A few for spiritual entrepreneurs, because you need to soften into your feminine to receive the creativity, To receive the intuitive heads about what it is that you're meant to create, how you're supposed to serve, those insights about your iconic work and then shift into a healthy masculine, the masculine as the one that inside of you.
[00:19:04] It's the protector. if you are here to do your iconic work, you will have a bold message to share that will ruffle feathers. You know it, so that masculine needs to be really healthy inside of you so that the feminine feels safe to speak what you are here to say so that you feel safe to go out and take action, which is also the masculine.
[00:19:29]Masculine is out there in the world, putting all the places. So it's really this fine tune balance between these energies so that you can be all that you came here to be in, do all that you came here to do. And I don't know if you would like me, Allyson, to go into how this plays into romantic relationships, because it's a key piece as well.
[00:19:48]Allyson Scammell: Please. Why not?
[00:19:50]Raquel Vasallo: So I've seen a lot. And I dunno if you've seen the South in your work as well, because I work with very high achieving women. They have a very dominant masculine, and so the way that's showing up in their romantic relationships is that their sex life is either not very good or practically non-existent.
[00:20:11]And, if they're. In a relationship, with a man, sometimes the man has been eMASS escalated because of this dominance from them. So in a way they've completely switched around and for healthy relationships and healthy and satisfying and passionate, intimacy, there has to be polarity, right? Like magnets.
[00:20:38]So if you're a woman in your masculine and dominating, then there can not be any polarity if you're in a relationship with a man. And by the way, this works as well. if you're in a homosexual relationship, because we're talking about energies, it doesn't really matter what kind of physical body that you're in.
[00:20:56] This will show up. So for women, if you've identified that you're like in the pushing and then the doing, and then the conquering and the forcing and controlling and all of that, and you haven't softened and you're not able to relax in your relationship, you really need to start to switch that around completely and move into the feminine.
[00:21:16] And there's a lot of different ways to do that so that you can. Flip your polarity around. And what will happen is that your partner, because your polarity changed, they will actually automatically start to change themselves and love that you're in your feminine.
[00:21:31]Allyson Scammell: That is fascinating. That is so fascinating. I hate to say, I recall that I identified with the woman you were describing me.
[00:21:39] Raquel Vasallo: Oh, believe me.
[00:21:41] Allyson Scammell: oops. Was that me?
[00:21:42] Raquel Vasallo: the reason why I know this really is because I was that woman as well. It's very predominant. I get hands down. Every single client I've worked with has been in this situation. I rarely come across the women who are one fully, sexually activated and two that have this balance.
[00:22:04] And so the really important pieces to make ourselves wrong and to understand that we've actually learned. And train been trained by our society, by our parents, by our teachers to be this way. So there's nothing wrong with us. We just need to shed those layers, unlearn it and activate. There's a way of activating the divine feminine within us so that then we can find that balance.
[00:22:37] And then there's the other piece and it's healing the divine masculine, because if you've identified yourself as being more in your masculine, that means that the divine masculine and you, which is different than just regular masculine, that means that part of you has also been suffering and not understanding exactly how to show up for you.
[00:22:55]Allyson Scammell: Yes. Yes. So fascinating. Can you give us a tip or a practice, on how we can activate our divine feminine?
[00:23:05]Raquel Vasallo: I love to work with some of the goddesses that, that guide me in my work. One is the Goddess is of compassion. And the other one is ISIS. he's more, there's a lot more sexual power to her. So anyone who's listening, maybe tune in or look up an image, look up the meaning and see where you're at and who you want to work with just to bring those energies in.
[00:23:28]And then remind yourself who you really are as a woman, because we have a preconceived idea of what a woman is, and you need to tune into what a woman is for you, but it means to be a woman. one thing that I know for sure is that women are keepers of beauty, pleasure, turn on, divine magic. And the sacred feminine.
[00:23:54]So you can turn this into a ritual going beyond, Oh, I'm going to put some makeup on or something feminine that makes me look sexy. All those things are wonderful. But if you turn this into a ritual where you're calling in one of the goddesses in there are many others. I just chose those two for right now.
[00:24:14] you can actually. Create a little mini activation, right? Where you can either in this ritual either, have an amazing Rose petal bath or put on some incredible music and set the intention of what it is that you want to activate or bring to the surface. Do you want to bring out your playfulness?
[00:24:40]Do you want to bring out your turn on? your psychic abilities, right? That's so much of the feminine. Maybe you want to bring out your seductress, Maybe what I call your creator is the one that creates and has so much fun. Maybe you want to bring out the irresistible part of you that makes you feel completely turned on.
[00:25:04] And I'm not talking about just the. sexual turn-on, but as spiritual turnout, which means that you are completely turned on to life. So through this little ritual, you can set that intention to activate that. And then in the next few days after to keep that turned on, to keep that activated, to keep that energy in your auric field.
[00:25:31] So that people can experience your radiance or whatever it is that you chose. This is just a little exercise. I think that anyone can do. And although it seems simple, it is actually very powerful.
[00:25:44]Allyson Scammell: Sounds incredible. Oh, my gosh, I love how you described it and I'm going to give it a shot myself. that's super beautiful. So I want to shift a little bit to, and it's all part of the same conversation here about. connecting in deeper to who we are and the iconic work we're meant to do in the world.
[00:26:06] So what are the different ways that we can, turn up our ability to receive divine downloads or to receive that wisdom coming from the higher self, the divine other guides that are here to support us. And why is that important for the work that we're doing in the world?
[00:26:24] Raquel Vasallo: it's well, let's talk about why it's important. first of all, because of the shifts that are happening and I shared earlier that we're being called to be all that we came here to be, and if we're just operating based on our programs and our beliefs and who we think we should be, we're never going to get there.
[00:26:41] The, that information comes from a higher realm. That's why it's so important. and that makes life a lot, a whole lot more fun. Let's just say that. And the way to turn up the volume is, first of all, it's really important to know how you receive information, right? Have you identified yourself as clairvoyant clear audience?
[00:27:05] Clear cognizant clear sentience. You need to know your primary way of receiving information because it'll help you identify more. And more of that information. It's like when you're getting ready to buy a new car. And you find this particular model and you're like, Ooh, I think I really like this one.
[00:27:23] And all of a sudden you're driving on the freeway and you start seeing that car everywhere. You never saw it before. It's called the reticular activation system. It's starts. Your mind is starting to look for that. So when you've identified, which is your primary way of receiving information, and maybe you have several in your, you already know that, but just be really conscious of it and setting the intention commanding.
[00:27:46]And being grateful for the information coming through, then you're stepping into your power into and into co-creation instead of trying to figure it all out on your own, you're actually actively commanding. I want to receive this information. I want to know where I'm going next. I want to serve at the highest level and I want to experience, and you fill in the blank as you're doing that work.
[00:28:14]No one to experience financial abundance. I want to experience high levels of joy. I also want to experience unconditional love as I'm doing this.
[00:28:24]So you're shifting from letting life appear to you and stepping into the driver's seat and saying, I am going to live a life by design. And a life that is connected to spirit and my spiritual iconic work in the world.
[00:28:44]Allyson Scammell: That is really amazing. I love why you lead with the why, like why this is important and, why it's not just important it's necessary and that it is a co-creative process. And I think that, spiritual entrepreneurs who are very tuned into this on the one hand, And they were very open to this and connected to this in many ways, but I think they also have those dark nights of the soul where they feel so alone and they feel so cut off.
[00:29:14] Raquel Vasallo: It's so typical. Yeah. thanks for bringing that up. I think it's really important to speak about that. I've had many of those and feeling so long, even though things look really good on the outside, but as spiritual entrepreneurs, we feel. The world in a different way, where impasse and we take on the pain.
[00:29:35] So it's really important for us to distinguish as if the pain is our own or we're taking on the collective pain,
[00:29:41] And then setting ourselves up for success so that when we do feel down alone or dark, that we have the support in place so that our emotions don't take over and we can still do what we came here to do.
[00:29:57]Allyson Scammell: Yes. Yes. Yes. So good. So good. So Raquel, one of the things I always ask my guests is, and I put them on the spot just a little bit. and I ask my guests to leave our listeners with a challenge.
[00:30:11]Raquel Vasallo: Yeah.
[00:30:11]Allyson Scammell: Kind of a masculine thing. I probably need to be healing my divine masculine, as I say that I'm like, Oh, that's masculine challenge. But, anyway, that occurred to me as I said that.
[00:30:22] Raquel Vasallo: it's okay, because we can immediately use that challenge to call in the feminine.
[00:30:28]Allyson Scammell: Yes. Yes. I think that's a good idea.
[00:30:31]Raquel Vasallo: So I actually, something came up right away. As you said that. And the challenge is to
[00:30:37]connect to the goddess that's inside of you. And it doesn't matter what you think when you heard this. Oh, I don't have a goddess or whatever. Start with a beginner's mind because there is goddess energy inside of you. So the challenges is to quiet your mind, connect to the goddess. That's inside of you that wants to be turned on.
[00:30:58] That wants to be unleashed the ones that come out into the world and ask her what does the goddess desire
[00:31:07]Allyson Scammell: Ooh, so good.
[00:31:09] Raquel Vasallo: and then give it to yourself.
[00:31:10]Allyson Scammell: exactly? What does the goddess desire? That is a brilliant challenge. can you have a dark goddess inside you or is that not really? Oh, I just recently experienced a major shutdown in my energy. Like I just. I just had to go into my cave for a while. And I was, my energy levels just stopped.
[00:31:35]And I knew I just had to regenerate and go into the cave and, cancel a lot of things that I had planned to do and just, recharge. And I felt like when I was in this cave, I was calling it. I felt like that there was a dark goddess within, and she wasn't a bad thing. She wasn't, Negative. She was fierce and bitchy, but like in a good way, like good bitchy, if that makes sense.
[00:32:00] And so I was just calling her my dark goddess. I didn't know. if that's.
[00:32:05] Raquel Vasallo: so important. What you just shared. Let me tell you why. I take women on a very intimate retreat. It's called the creators activation retreat, where this is all that we do with shedding and then activating the goddess. And one of the very first exercises we do on the very on the first evening is I ask them, what does the bitch have to say?
[00:32:29]Because we've also been trained to not be angry and not say what we really want to say as women. And we are called a bitches if we do.
[00:32:38]Allyson Scammell: Right.
[00:32:39] Raquel Vasallo: that you connected to that energy is really powerful because she, the bitch, the dark goddess, the fierce Swan, whatever it is that you want to call it, when you step to tap into her.
[00:32:51]Woo. It's like fire get turns on. It's Kali energy and she will start to tell you the things that are no longer okay. In your life. And it is so important to connect to her. So I'm super happy for you.
[00:33:05]Allyson Scammell: I thank you recall, like boy that you just clarified so much for me in the last 30 seconds. Thank you so much for explaining that. And it does, it felt very releasing and relieving. And ah, she's finally, I'm finally hearing her and she can just let her rip, you know what I mean? She had a lot to tell me.
[00:33:27]Raquel Vasallo: and I'm sure there's more. And so it's really important to have those downtimes, like you allowed yourself to have, which is actually the feminine. You allowed yourself to clear your schedule, go into your cave, whatever that looked like and just listen. And I'm sure she has a lot more that she wants to say.
[00:33:45]Allyson Scammell: Yeah. Yes. thank you so much, Raquel. Again, I feel we have this, bond around near death experiences back in 2008 and Madrid. And, anyway, I just, I really knew I had an immediate connection to you, and I'm not surprised how this interview unfolded and you are brilliant. I love your way.
[00:34:05] With words is English, your first language or your second language.
[00:34:09]Raquel Vasallo: interestingly enough, it's my first, because even though I was born in Spain, my mom was American. And so she only spoke English to us until we started to go to school.
[00:34:19]Allyson Scammell: Okay, so I'm raising a bilingual child myself. anyway, you have a really gifted way of words and how you describe things and how you bring things to life. And I really feel so grateful that you shared not just your gift for forwards, but all of your wisdom and everything you're bringing in the economy, work in the world.
[00:34:38] You're doing to this show. And I know my listeners are so grateful to be part of this as I am.
[00:34:45] Raquel Vasallo: Oh, I am so very grateful for the opportunity and the conversation that we have. Today, we don't get to talk about this on just any show. So you brought it up.
[00:34:54] Allyson Scammell: thank you. So please Raquel tell our listeners how they can find you.
[00:35:00]Raquel Vasallo: Yeah. The best way to find me, they can either go to my website, which is dot com. And I'm sure you'll have the spelling of that in your show notes. but also I do, Teachings that I don't do anywhere else in my private Facebook group. And that's where I really love to connect to people because I actually get to know them and do these live teachings and interact with people.
[00:35:20] So anyone that feels called to join us, it's called you can just go to the sacred power circle.com and it'll take you to the Facebook group, live teaching every Thursday and they're recorded. and just. just more connection, especially now these days, we need that a lot more. So we'd love to have you there.
[00:35:41] Drop me a note. Tell me that you heard me on Alison show.
[00:35:44]Allyson Scammell: Oh, that's brilliant. And indeed those links will be in the show notes. So if you're out there listening, and this is resonating with you, get into our Kells world. Get into that group. I think I'll be sliding in there myself. and let's do our iconic work in the world together. So thank you again, Raquel so much for sharing your wins.
[00:36:04] Okay.
[00:36:05] Raquel Vasallo: No, you're so welcome. It's my pleasure.